Thursday, January 18, 2007,11:07 PMhahaha... hmm yea. sometimes people just like to live in denial. cause they feel obliged to stay single.
*(.''.)* y u t i n g // says:
hm. why?
pro-ster says:
waht do u mean by why? why people wanna stay single?
*(.''.)* y u t i n g // says:
no.why ppl wanna live in denial?
pro-ster says:
haha... let's see.. there are many factors leading to tht conclusion leh.
*(.''.)* y u t i n g // says:
ok..analyse
pro-ster says:
first of all they're afraid of rejection la. cause although they have this thing ongoing tht seems to give this impression tht both parties are fond of the other, but there's still this doubt in mind tht prevents one from confessing. sayy... they do not wish to lose what is already available to them.. i think
pro-ster says:
then secondly, it's the unertainty tht they will face in future. so what if u guys get together? will the thg last? it's qt obvious tht the majotiy of bgr at this age wont last. haha.. so sometimes.. it's better to keep waht u already have (the current relationship) than to lose it all in future when they break up
pro-ster says:
there are qt a few more reasons. but the primary reason is the reluctance to commit and the fear of insecurity in the relationship
hm. identity of pro-ster protected.
hm. no wonder there are a lot of ppl in ambiguous relationships!!
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